Yes, we are all bitter. This is a big deal for Xavier as this league will be very solid. We think of it as being overblown because joining that league wouldn't be as big of a deal to us. It's like the University of Florida looking at Louisville and wondering why they are so excited to join the ACC. They are on completely different grounds conference-wise and therefore, have different immediate goals.
Xavier is excited to be with "former" Big East schools and to make $4 million a year or whatever it is, just as we were ecstatic almost a decade ago. We have been doing those things for 8ish years and now we want more.
Bottomline, yes, we are all annoyed by positive Xavier coverage which makes our conference limbo feel even worse. I hate Xavier, but this is very, very good for their program especially considering Mack has them on the verge of becoming irrelevant again. Becoming irrelevant in the Big East and you can survive (DePaul, Rutgers, St. John's, Seton Hall); become irrelevant in the A-10 and your program could be completely done.
But let's do a quick breakdown of this conference:
NCAA teams - Georgetown, Marquette, Butler, Creighton, Villanova
Non-NCAA teams - Providence, Xavier, Seton Hall, St. Johns, DePaul
An argument can be made that the A-10 was better this year than that conference. I think the difference is the bottomfeeders of the conferences are very different. The excitement the mid-majors get is from seeing the names they are joining, not necessarily the programs themselves.