I learned a very long time ago not to "set standards" about the NCAA tournament. You'll end up crushed emotionally 9 out of 10 times. I hate to say this, but it does depend on draws.
With that being said, I fully admit that before the season started I looked at this team as being Sweet 16 able. Hell, depending on the draw I thought F4 dark horse. So to answer your questions, I'm always happy to make the NCAA tourney because you just never know what can happen. What if we make it as an 8 seed and win before playing a #1 seed, say Kansas, then lose to the Jayhawks? No we wouldn't make the Sweet 16 but I wouldn't consider it a failure and therefore wouldn't cast stones at a disappointing season. Then again, what if we slid in the tourney as a play in #12 seed and ended up in the Sweet 16?
Too many what if's still.
My point, if you're still with me, is that a lot can happen yet. Positive and/or negative. What would the tone be on this board IF we won out? or only dropped a game or two from here on out? The same argument can be made if we continue to lose games.
I'm no good in the heat of the moment. Never have been. I'm a big picture guy. Well, this season I think I'm going to have to be.